I remember hearing a story a number of years ago about a student who was graduating and lamenting the years she had spent with close friends without ever experiencing truly spiritual fellowship. They had had great times together and lots of laughs, but she realized there was something missing. She had been observing some younger students and how their relationships were similar but, at the same time, different. They had fun times together, but it went beyond that. They were experiencing a deeper intimacy, one born out of sharing in God’s Word together, opening up about fears and failures, and praying together. And the tears of disappointment flowed as she realized what could have been.
There is nothing greater than the spiritual intimacy between brothers and sisters in Christ. When we can share our lives honestly with others, encourage one another through the Word and through prayer, when we can challenge one another to live meaningful and purposeful lives, we realize how rich relationships can be. I think Paul and the Thessalonian believers had this type of relationship. Throughout his first letter, Paul speaks the language of intimate fellowship.
“We always thank God for all of you and continually mention you in our prayers. We remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.” (1:2-3)
“Just as a nursing mother cares for her children, so we cared for you. Because we loved you so much, we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well.” (2:7b-8)
“For we wanted to come to you—certainly I, Paul, did, again and again—but Satan blocked our way. For what is our hope, our joy, or the crown in which we will glory in the presence of our Lord Jesus when he comes? Is it not you? Indeed, you are our glory and joy.” (2:18-20)
There is a bond between them that reflects love and intimacy. It is a bond we, too, can share with other believers.
Too often we are quick to settle for shallow relationships. We want to hang out with other believers, but remain satisfied with only talk that revolves around work, school, kids, weather, sports, etc. We are satisfied to allow “God talk” to remain within the confines of Sunday mornings and small group Bible studies. This is what happened to that student years ago. But she came to regret it when she saw what could have been.
The kind of intimate fellowship that Paul experienced with the Thessalonians and this student observed is available to us. It is not some far-fetched dream or unattainable desire. It is within reach of all who seek the Lord and share their lives with one another. We just can’t settle for less; we must actively and intentionally pursue it.
Today, examine the relationships you have with other believers. Have you settled for spiritual shallowness when you could be experiencing spiritual intimacy? Know there is so much more you can experience if you will only begin to pursue it.
© Jim Musser 2016
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